We often hear that Americans need to have a conversation on race. However, anyone who has attempted to do so knows that such conversations are incredibly difficult to conduct civilly. At Divided We Fall, we do not fear difficult conversations. We embrace them. This week, Leah Donnella of NPR’s Codesmith and Robert Wilkes are willing to have the much needed conversation on race in America. Read their differing viewpoints as part of our Political Pen Pals series below.
My name is Robert. I’m a bookish, Jewish white male. I can’t sleep at night without Ambien because I can’t shut off my brain, and I’ve been thinking about race recently after participating in a series of conversations between Jews and blacks about race in America.
Jews know from Leviticus, “Do not stand idly by the blood of your neighbor.” Jews have a history of standing shoulder to shoulder with blacks during the civil rights movement and remain at the forefront of social justice causes. Jews cannot stand idly by.
Our black-Jewish dialogue program was comprised of six meetings over six months. We got along very well. Our conversations were often difficult, sometimes intense. Blacks and Jews were better able to see the world through the eyes of the other afterward. The most meaningful outcome, for me, was simply being together—sharing a meal and forming bonds of understanding.
I learned that there is a popular “narrative” about race in America and many of the African-American participants subscribed to it. I have a problem with the narrative. I don’t think it represents reality, and I don’t think it is constructive or helpful.
This opening blast is to defend my position. If it seems as though I’m attacking your race or devaluing your life experience as an African American, that is not my intention. My intention is to ensure that all Americans can achieve successful, meaningful, and happy lives. I think about young people in America who are black and I want them to succeed.
The narrative, as I heard it, was the following:
All whites are racist. I’m told there is racism I know I’m doing and racism I don’t know I’m doing, but it’s all racism. Racism in America is pervasive and omnipresent. The “system” is racist and designed to thwart blacks for white supremacy. Examples include the criminal justice system, voter suppression, redlining of mortgages by banks, profiling by police, higher rates of expulsion in public schools, lower per-pupil funding in schools with high percentages of black students, and general discrimination in hiring, promotion, and all phases of life.
I heard that black people fear for their lives and believe some whites would kill them merely for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. A traffic stop is a fearful event that can get you killed. The participants argued that white police “murder” black people almost every day and all black leaders have been assassinated.
I was told that America is tragically flawed and culpable for any number of evils. I believe we have a responsibility for slavery and Jim Crow, but some claimed responsibility far beyond that. The black people in our group don’t believe they have a homeland in the way that the Jews can look to Israel. They don’t seem to identify themselves as Americans (at least not as strongly as I do). As a people with an overwhelmingly deprecating view of America, they are without a home of their own.
They conclude that racism puts barriers in their path that are essentially insurmountable—for black people, life in America is difficult. Some believed that the best one can do is survive. Curiously, all the blacks in our group were successful in their chosen fields. Several were leaders and administrators with standing in the community. I was left with a cognitive dissonance I’m still trying to reconcile.
I challenged the narrative and set off a firestorm. The narrative is unassailable dogma—a law of gravity. No one is permitted to deviate from the narrative, black or white. The whites in the room are just as committed and pushed back just as hard.
I’ll break my challenge down into four points.
1. Frames of Belief
Our belief system, or “frame,” is the worldview we adopt because it makes us happy and seems to predict events. No one has a perfectly truthful worldview, and they would be wrong to think so. To see the power of frames, compare an hour of CNN with an hour of Fox News. Notice how differently they report the same events. The two popular news services reside in separate universes.
When you choose news programs because they validate your frame, you see the world is working as your frame predicted. You receive “confirmation bias,” and you are convinced of your frame’s truth. You become a reliable, loyal viewer; the news networks sell advertising and make a lot of money.
If you think Trump is awful and should be impeached, you’ll find confirmation bias all day, every day. On the other hand, if you believe Trump is just what the country needs, you’ll find confirmation bias for that as well. One or both of these frames is a mass delusion. I think it’s both.
If your frame is the racism narrative, you’ll have no trouble finding confirmation bias. You’ll see it in every sideways glance or the tone of voice of an overworked waitress. The Southern Poverty Law Center paints the bleakest possible picture of race in America. It publishes data reporting every racial incident—whether confirmed or not. These numbers increase year by year because the day race relations improve is the day they go out of business. Donations will dry up. Jewish groups do the same, often with the same result—increased fear.
2. Correlation versus Causation
As I read the literature on the black experience with the criminal justice system, on higher mortgage rates for blacks, and high rates of expulsion in schools, I see logical fallacies and errors conflating correlation with causation. This is, after all, social science—not chemistry or physics. Causal factors are complicated and largely unmeasurable. Social scientists, authors, news commentators, academics, and politicians will examine the same phenomena and arrive at vastly different conclusions.
The narrative encourages us to regard all setbacks as the result of racism, incorrectly conflating correlation with causation. We can’t solve problems until we confront them in an honest search for truth. Reflexively attributing problems to racism is avoidance; it prevents us from seeing reality. It also robs us of our capacity for agency by handing one’s ability to take control of one’s life and act in one’s own interests to other people. Other people have their own interests.
3. The Narrative is Unhealthy
This is the main point of my challenge: The narrative is toxic. For some, it will be catastrophic—to teach a child that life is hopeless, that trying is futile, and to feel exaggerated fear is child abuse. The narrative, for some, is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Each of us has one life, a precious gift from God. If the narrative causes one child to lose faith in himself and become so discouraged that he gives up, that life is wasted.
The narrative has its allure and its payoffs. In our present social and political climate, you gain power when you establish yourself as a victim. The victim card helps those who know how to play it to their advantage, but it fetters many others from disadvantaged circumstances.
4. The Story of the Black Immigrant
Over 4 million black immigrants are living in America. People of color who immigrate to America have an advantage—they have not been raised on the narrative. Rather, they have been raised on the opposite: They see opportunity in America like nowhere else on Earth. Yes, they know there is racism in America—that they will be black in a predominantly white society—but they don’t choose to let it obstruct their paths. Compared to the circumstances of real hopelessness they have left behind, America offers unlimited opportunities. To many immigrants, racism is real but possible to overcome.
That’s my argument. Yes, there is racism. There is antisemitism, Islamophobia, homophobia—you name it. We will, in time, make those prejudices socially unacceptable in the same way you wouldn’t dare light a cigarette in a restaurant today because no one would tolerate it.
This is not the Jim Crow America of 1950. We have made enormous progress on race. I say resist the temptation to be a victim, defeatist and cynical. I believe America is a loving, big-hearted nation of powerful moral ideals unique in the world. For black people, the full realization of those ideals is coming slowly—first in the genius of our founding documents, then in the Emancipation Proclamation, followed by the Civil Rights and Voting Rights Acts. It will come, and African Americans should take a seat at the table of opportunity in America.
Change your frame. Discard the narrative. Look for the good in our nation and you’ll see confirmation everywhere. Believe in yourself, exercise your agency, and make a life of your own choosing in this wonderful land.
Nice to meet you. I am a bookish, Jewish black woman. I, too, often stay up at night thinking about race in the United States (partly because thinking about race is my job, partly because racial dynamics inform many aspects of my life, and partly because I find race fascinating.)
The passage you quoted from Leviticus is very personally meaningful to me. It reminds me of the famous African-American civil rights leader Fannie Lou Hamer, who was quoted as saying, “Nobody’s free until everybody’s free.” This idea, that human beings are collectively responsible for each other’s well-being, is one I hear frequently from black people, Jews, and several other groups.
That said, in my response to you, I’d like for us both to resist the urge to generalize any racial or religious groups. It’s worth pointing out, I think, that while there are certainly Jewish texts that support the idea of standing alongside one’s neighbors, that does not mean that Jews writ large participated in the civil rights movement. Some Jewish people made heroic sacrifices in the fight for racial justice, but the majority of Jews did not participate in the movement (just as the majority of black people didn’t participate in the civil rights movement).
I’d also like to note that, while I understand the idea of treating black people and Jewish people as two distinct groups—after all, most black people are not Jewish; most Jews are not black—I personally cannot separate those dimensions of my identity. I am both, fully, at all times, which means that my understanding of who is the “other” likely differs from yours.
I do think we can agree that all people are deserving of certain fundamental rights and freedoms. Similarly, my deepest dream is that all humans, American or not, can achieve peaceful and meaningful lives. Now, onto the narrative. I’m going to respond to your thoughts in the same numbered order so that we can keep track.
Recognizing White Privilege
1. I’ve only rarely met someone who would argue that “all whites are racist.” The assertion I hear more commonly is that all white people have certain privileges due to white supremacy, whether they want those privileges or not. Peggy McIntosh has outlined a very thoughtful list of some of those privileges in her famous article, “White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack.”
In terms of the “system” that people refer to, I think your list is a good place to start. Our government creates many structures and frameworks that shape the way we navigate the world, knowingly or unknowingly. The fact that our circumstances are shaped by norms, laws, biases, and patterns—and not just random occurrences—might be a helpful way to think of the system.
2. Black people are consistently killed for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. There are more subtle/debatable instances of this, of course, but there are also obvious ones. If you read any of Dylann Roof’s explanations for shooting black churchgoers in Charleston, you might see that there are indeed people who clearly identify their murderous hatred of black people. This is not ancient history.
Traffic stops are fearful events for black Americans—that seems to be a fairly self-evident claim to me. Perhaps knowing the story of Philando Castile, who was pulled over 46 times before being fatally shot by a police officer, would help explain why. Republican Senator Tim Scott also talked thoughtfully about his experience being pulled over, and the fear that those stops consequently inspired.
I’ve never heard anyone claim that all black leaders were assassinated. This sounds to me like hyperbole that was taken literally. Obviously, some prominent black leaders have been assassinated, such as Martin Luther King Jr. and Malcolm X.
3. I agree with much of this one. I think the United States is flawed and culpable for a lot of wrongdoing beyond slavery and Jim Crow. Japanese internment, the genocide of Native Americans, and the Tuskegee syphilis experiment were the first three to come to my mind. I imagine I could easily list several hundred.
In terms of identifying as American, I see that as a deeply personal decision. I find no moral value in identifying as American or not—just as I find no moral value in being American or not. Still, here’s my favorite poem about someone grappling with the meaning of American identity as a black man (or a member of any number of groups that have not had full access to the “American dream”). It’s Let America Be America Again, by Langston Hughes.
The African-American Experience
I’ve never had a black person tell me they thought life was hopeless because of their race. Spending time with black friends and family members is one of the most uplifting, empowering, hilarious, and joyful things that I do.
I do think, though, that when confronted with the long list of ways in which life in the United States and elsewhere in the world is limited for black people, one might rightly feel somewhat dismayed. Black people experience higher rates of poverty, gun violence, maternal mortality, and incarceration than any other group in this country. We also have less access to jobs, education, and opportunities—you’ve acknowledged much of this in your letter. And, to return to the idea that we cannot stand idly by, I think these circumstances collectively might naturally result in a feeling of hopelessness.
I am what many would consider a successful person. I have a stable job that pays well, a solid community, a family, an education, and access to everything I want daily. But my individual success—the fact that I personally was born in extremely privileged circumstances and have managed to maintain those privileges—does not prevent me from feeling somewhat hopeless about the circumstances that black people disproportionately experience. In other words, my individual “success” feels somewhat meaningless to me knowing that I am the exception; through no doing of my own, I have access to opportunities and resources that most people never will.
Don’t get me wrong—I’m not trying to say that I haven’t made important choices, worked hard, or tried to be a decent person. I have agency. But I was also born to rich, highly educated parents who are U.S. citizens, one of whom is white. The fact that I now have a good job isn’t exactly an indicator that racism is waning.
In response to your challenge: If the “narrative” boils down to the idea that racism exists, I have to say, I’m comfortable with that narrative. Yes, racism can seem overwhelming. To someone who doesn’t experience it every day, I imagine the thought of having to deal with it sounds soul-crushing. But what would be more devastating, in my mind, would be to ignore the realities of racism. In that world, people would be forced to believe that all these things we’ve discussed—income inequality, disparities in education, incarceration rates, and wealth distribution, for instance—are simply the result of poor choices. In that world, if black people just tried harder or took ownership of their decisions or believed in themselves, then these disparities would not exist.
Not only is that is an old and tired idea, but it is an insidious one. Gaslighting black people (or people from any marginalized group) into thinking that we are at fault for our inequality is an action that I do not believe can be justified. Racism is an organizing principle of American life. It was written into our Constitution by our founding fathers, and it has been codified into law. That has profound and enduring ramifications.
It’s also something that I think should resonate strongly with anyone who knows Jewish history.
A Few Closing Notes
Concerning correlation versus causation: Yes, I think there are often many factors to consider in a situation. Still, it’s easy enough to explain away any given set of inequalities. I hear frequently comments like, “It’s not about race, it’s about housing segregation…or poverty…or education…or….” Yet, race cannot be separated from these things.
Regarding black immigrants: The idea that it is people elsewhere in the world who experience “real hopelessness” (but are somehow also immune to white supremacy or anti-blackness) is another old, divisive trope. First of all, what counts as real hopelessness, and who is the arbiter? What assumptions are we making about the people who can immigrate to the United States? One of my dearest friends moved to the U.S. from Ethiopia as a young woman. Her family was well-off and she attended the best schools in Ethiopia. When they immigrated to the U.S., suddenly she and her family members were poor (degrees and credentials don’t often transfer easily). They also faced enormous challenges that they hadn’t in their home country—including, but not limited to, suddenly becoming part of a minority group that is subject to negative stereotypes.
Cigarettes didn’t just naturally disappear because of the invisible forces of progress. There was extensive research to show that smoking cigarettes was addictive and caused lung cancer. There were massive efforts to regulate the tobacco industry and increase public awareness, and laws were changed to prevent smoking in most restaurants. And still, the U.S. tobacco industry is estimated to be worth half a trillion dollars a year—even though everyone knows that smoking is bad.
And that’s cigarettes. Racism isn’t just going to disappear—it is baked into the fabric of our nation. If we want to fight against it, the most fundamental step is to acknowledge it.
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There is no systemic racism in the United States. That is an undisputable fact. Are there racist people in the US? Yes there are racist people of all races. I am 65 years old and I remember some of my relatives making racist remarks such as Blacks are happier with their own people other remarks which even as a kid in Southern Alabama did not make much sense to me. Most of the time racism is a matter of fearing people different than you or an excuse to make yourself feel better, or trying to find someone to blame when things don’t go your way.. As to my original statement here is my proof that there is not systemic racism. Name any endeavor, job, political office, business opportunity that Blacks or any other race have not been able to get into. Blacks are in control of many of America’s largest cities where the mayor, most of the city council, police chief and his or her command staff are black. If there is systemic racism then how is it the cities where most of the rioting has taken place occurs in these cities that are run by liberals? How can that be? How is it that the claims of systemic racism are made in areas controlled by liberals and Blacks? He is that sad truth. Black leaders and liberals use claims of racism to maintain power and control. They are always wanting to give money away (which they don’t have and we cannot afford) and justify it by screaming there is racism which we must destroy. Where exactly have any Democratic programs in the last 30 years done anything to make anyone’s life better? They create an idea that being Black creates an entitlement for free stuff that someone has to pay for. They convince Blacks that all whites are racist which is not true. I along with the vast majority of Americans don’t care what color, sexual orientation you are, or anything else. All we care about is the content of your character. The very thing that the great civil rights leader Dr. Martin Luther King said. Stop the race baiting and accusing all whites of being racist and work together for a better world.
Racism does exist, there is no doubt about it. Our laws are supposed to be designed to be equal to all. That being said, our laws aren’t to blame. It’s individuals, the banker who won’t give the loan, the officer that treats a different race differently.
I feel that we will never get rid of racism, as long as the left tries to keep it alive. They’ve made racism an industry, which has become very profitable for them. And they use it to try and win elections. Racism is real, and it exists for ALL races. It exists for the handicapped, it exists for people who are not good at sports, it exists for fat people, unattractive people, military, LGTBQ, drugs, people who have been in prison religion, even political parties, and just about anything else that people can be discriminated for.
There are no laws that we can pass that will MAKE people like other people. The best we can do is insure that everyone has a fair and equal chance at opportunities in our country, we have to insure that our laws are not discriminating against any group or race. The justice system is in need of reform. We don’t need judges to decide punishment. We need a set of punishments for crimes and a guide to how many crimes a person commits.
There are ways to fix the problems in our q, but forcing someone to like another will never be the answer!
Hey Richard, I’d like to take a moment to reply your comment here. While I do agree with your statement that racism does exist, I have a several notes about your comment that I’d like to discuss.
Contrary to your claim that “our laws are not to blame” I’d like to point out that actually, a significant portion of the US legislation is still quite racist and still in place as we can see from this article listing 100 racist laws still on the books in Virginia;
This article uses Virginia as an example, but there are still other states that also have these kinds of laws in place.
While these laws are not necessarily being used as much as they used to, they are remnants of an oppressive system, that produced (and still produces) false narratives of people of color that still guide our perception of the black population. These narratives are enforced in media (role of black people in the movies and TV for example) which guide our everyday behaviour subconsciously. I do agree with you to a certain limit that in the end, it is the individual decision that produces the racist outcome.
However, since the government can only educate people on racial issues to a certain degree, the most effective ways to tackle the outcome of these racial attitudes are to enforce successful social policies improving the lives or the disenfranchised communities. And I think we agree in this since you said “The best we can do is insure that everyone has a fair and equal chance at opportunities in our country”.
As much I agree with you that there are probably crooked people in the left (as there are in the right) trying to take opportunity of the disenfranchised people for their own personal gain, I do disagree with your statement of “I feel that we will never get rid of racism, as long as the left tries to keep it alive”.
I do not think that is an accurate statement of the leftist movement as a whole and here’s why:
The United States is not even close to having as effective of a welfare state as the countries like Finland, Sweden, Denmark and Germany, which rank year after year the best countries to live in the world. I would agree with you if the US had these policies already in place and was far more progressive than Finland for example, and the leftist movement was pushing for unreasonable legislation.
Since the US does not provide as effective social policies as its progressive European counterparts, I think it is absolutely necessary for the left to advocate these policies so that the US can finally join the other developed nations taking care of its citizens properly and therefore ensuring the future of the democracy within it’s borders.